TRUST AND SECRETS
We have many secrets within us that we reveal with someone that is close to us and trustworthy. That is all up to that person either to keep it in order to empower the bonding or shake the confidence by sharing it with others. There are some circumstances where you find yourself to share your secrets just to give a lesson to others or for fun sake. People took the opportunity by writing biographies for this purpose. Whatever the situation, our secrets are valued to us because we often think about them when we are alone. We also Re-visualize them, drag them, rewind them, change the placing and characters according to our wish, learn lessons from them, and enjoy. Though these memories are not always cherished able, sometimes they give pain and stress.
Well! I am not going to reveal any of my secrets because of I afraid that it will break some of my images that I made in my life. The first image will definitely break is “The Thorough Gentleman”. Relax! I haven’t done anything so much wrong. But most people do not understand the situations and mold the facts according to their wish. We as a society never forget others fault and describe someone’s small mistakes as a huge blunder. I am a type of person who is not ready to be discussed publically as a wrong character or let others exploit me. I love to share my thoughts but secrets are something very delicate. I have my family where I have no secrets with them but for others, I am too choosy. We don’t know whether someone treats it properly or destroy the building of trust. But we have to admit that sometimes we are so heavy in mood that we really want someone to share with a sigh of relief.
At this point, how should we handle the situation; should we trust someone or not? We can trust others if we ever depict same gesture to our close ones. This is all “Tit for tat” that means first we need to be reliable and then expect such behavior from others. There are some emotionless people who do not care for others sentiments, we cannot change them. These are the ones who do wrong in your life either you do right to them or not. We should recognize our well-wishers and avoid losers. It is better to share your secrets with plants and flowers instead of them; even flowers and plants know how to keep them.
According to me, we should come out of all such fears; if you need to share then go ahead and release your tension. We are not meant to live forever and our life is very short so, why to worry about anything. Just do whatever comes out of your mind. So, sharing a secret is not too much that can change your life and if it happens, let it occur. Occurrences never ask us before taking place. Find the people from your surroundings and make a comfort zone (as I made with my family) and share all. Trust me you can feel better.