EMOTIONAL FRUSTRATION

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Frustration was once known as anxiety and found in disturbed people only. Those who suffered from it were treated sympathetically by normal people. These days it becomes a routine in the life of many around the world.  Though people living in developed countries face less of it still it is there with different shapes. There is a global reason for uncertainty and disturbance between countries. Global warming, race of nuclear power and Socio-economical conditions are also one of the reasons.
These big words were once meant to think tanks and superior head of countries but now media shares each and every news of the world to the public. The positive aspect of this is “awareness” i.e. requirement of the time. But the negative impact is, sometimes a little incident affects a lot of a common person.  For example, if there is a planning of coup to some country and there is the severe rift between them. In this situation, a soft-hearted people obviously take it very seriously. The reason behind it that we have seen so many wars and their destructions and a normal person is not in favor of anymore. This is all power and number game and nothing else. Such disturbing news raises the frustration and anxiety all over.
Natural disasters, oppression towards humanity and discriminations are also a part of our daily news. There is a rift of unfair distribution of boundaries, people are having financial crisis and cruelty is at the peak. Innocent people are being murdered in café, educational institutions, worship and at other public places. Selfish people are not limited to one place they spread their feet all over the world. No country is safe. Developed countries have power and they deal with all but people of developing countries are facing terrorism, target killing, uncertainty and financial crisis in their vicinity. This is also supporting frustration.
Population, pollution and poor economic situation are also affecting people in many developing countries. People are moving to urban areas for better financial chances. This situation is very alarming in the cities of such third world countries. It affects a lot where people are more and state resources are not enough to manage them all. In such circumstances, first of all, traffic is becoming a mess. We are witnessing a daily traffic jam even in side roads. Long queues are and noise pollution is a routine that increasing stress in people.  Earning opportunities are also less as compare to the population.  This environment is affecting in a way where crimes are increasing and creating more emotional frustration in the young generation.
In developed countries, life is busy and everyone has time handling problems in daily routine. People try to resolve their problems by putting their responsibilities to various service vendors. Latest technologies lead us away from our loved ones; mobile and internet (social media) is a necessity but people waste a lot of time apart from their job.  We have the day to night entertainments that weakens the binding between families. This environment allows selfish people to attract and mislead the new generation by leading them towards bad practices.
At the family level, people are away from each other; they love to meet the persons those are only favorable to them.  Sometimes we ignore our loved ones in the race of success and achievements. This ignorance is also making our young generation frustrated, illusionist and daydreamers. It is not a healthy thing for a growing kid. We should pay attention to our children in a way to develop their personality. Improving living style is not limited to good food, standard schools, brands and luxury vacations. Personality is something that makes a person good or bad in a society. No matter in what situation we are living we can educate our children to be a good citizen.

 

In my view, a change at the family level is more effective to build a sensible society. Organize your every day in a suitable routine; wake up early, spare a little for exercise, do yoga or meditation. Keep an eye on your diet plans, think positive and do not interfere in others lives. A little prayer according to your belief is also a wonderful idea for the purity of soul and mind. Of course, we all are not having equal opportunities in our lives but one thing is free of cost, i.e. positivity. This will keep you away from worries and frustration. We should not see others change but take a start at yourself, be a role model and do care about kids as they are the future of human beings.
Best regards.

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BLUE WHALE – A MANIPULATIVE GAME

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Technology is everywhere and we are blessed to be the part of this modern age. This is not the end and there are vast opportunities ahead. Machines and types of equipment make our life easy. We can approach anybody around the world within seconds. Powerful machines are ready to solve our all problems. 3 D printers are helping to build from small instruments to sky rises. The Internet is there to spread information, knowledge, and entertainment. Smartphones replace many types of equipment. Watches, calculator, calendar and physical trainer are required for status show off only.
In the age of growing technologies and if I not exaggerate, everything seems possible in this world. A few years back, children were bound to go outside to play soccer, cricket, baseball, badminton and tennis in large playgrounds and streets. Large boards and tables were also required for Pool ball, Luddo, Carom and table tennis. Then time changed, and games are available in smartphones and in access of all kind of people. Old people can now also participate and enjoy any game on their smartphone. If you are not familiar with rules of any games even then you can learn it on the internet. Cards are also available with their magnetism.
Time is changed and so are the games. Now there is a lot of addition as compared to traditional games. Entertainment is there according to the mood; amusing, brainy, adventure, suspense, and funny apps are available at digital play stores. But in recent times we observe a change that many manipulative games are also available on the internet. These are promoting inhuman culture in growing minds. Fresh ones are their target to capture in this trance.
Blue whale game is one of the recent times problems that is in my view is gaining popularity. It is reported that many innocents have been targeted by it and lost their lives. According to the reports it is developed by a psycho who is being sentenced for a small period. This game has 50 levels and it challenges to dare an uneven act and final level challenge is a suicide attempt. People are worried about their children. Kids in teenage want their privacy and avoid family members.
I think the situation is not beyond controls. Family bonding is the only solution to this problem. Parents and siblings are the best guides to avoid such fake entertainment. Families should spare an hour in the night for a meeting where all members should discuss their daily routines with each other. People should not avoid sharing with the younger ones; try to elaborate the situation according to their knowledge. This sharing will bring them close to elders and they will surely discuss their routines with them. As an elder, people must watch the routines of their children. Any unusual routine will be an alarm and that should be taken care of. Children are future of mankind and most precious ones. We should build a confident and friendly atmosphere in our homes where everyone feels comfortable to share their all activities.
Games should be for entertainment, knowledge, and fun; do not allow them to kill anyone. Such game developers are mentally sick and spreading their sick ideas to others. We should have the confidence to defend against such circumstances. Children and teenagers should also show a gesture of intelligence; one frustrated and psycho cannot change your minds. No need to be desperate in any situation; think positive and quit
such manipulative games at an early stage. Humans should not handle with remotes in other hands. There is no psychiatric issue in it; we allow them to capture our thoughts and we have the power to refuse them. Sometimes people also relate themselves to others problems and visualize themselves at someone else place. Visualisation is good to bring new ideas in life but an excess of everything is bad. Many times reality is different from imaginations. If we are positive towards life, focused and mentally strong, no one can delude us.
Be positive and strong and defeat such selfish developers in any color they are; blue or white, whale or shark. Defeat them and grab the all gold stars from your life.
Good luck and best regards.

 

SELF GROOMING

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Change is a necessary element of our life; it has a vital effect on seasons, people, days and nights. Many people are revolutionary in nature and innovative in their lives. These type of persons love to change themselves in a perfect way. This urge of change and perfectionism is the key to success and lead us to the way of self-grooming. These words like self-grooming, revolution, ambition etc are undoubtedly big ones to say but when we bring them to our lives, they need not many efforts from a willing person.
Introduction of the world to a newborn baby is the people, their behaviors, atmosphere, and surroundings.  Sometimes these things and the atmosphere is good, many time bad and a few time awesome. We absorb our atmosphere in us and show our actions being manipulated with these surroundings. These are afterward called our habits; apart from fact that these are good or bad.
After passing a little time in this, many of us go to school, high school, colleges, and universities. These institutions and company of friends also influence us in various ways. This age is the second stage of learning. We grab much useful knowledge in this age. People from different backgrounds show the versatility of life to a learning kid. Friendship gives new meaning to recognize the personalities of others.
At the age of maturity or in practical life, everyone has a clear vision of self-awareness. We almost know about our capabilities and can groom ourselves in a specific field. This stage is very important where we have to choose and decide a field for our entire life. Some get success easily and many have to struggle throughout their lives. There is one more category that at firstly choose the wrong way but upon realizing the mistake, jump into their loving place and live happily ever after.
Life is not easy for all, many people face difficulties in their lives. This is the time when we need to groom ourselves for new challenges. Many of us are a misfit in our professions or jobs. For example, a person loves to sing but dragged to a 9 to 5 job. We can observe such situations with different styles in everyday life.  Now, what can we do? No problem at all. Nothing is impossible. Do not leave the field, no need to show it your back. A true one is always judged in crisis. Make yourself as right choice; mold yourself according to the atmosphere. Take it as a challenge; groom yourself by studying related literature or ask a senior for help. Once we overcome the situation we can easily keep our hobbies.
Grooming is something that is related to success only, no matter what you are doing. It is a bossy job or a repair work. When we enjoy our work and try to improve it; it will definitely pay back in shape of appreciation and success. One more thing is necessary is steadiness; a constant struggle is a key to success. Self-grooming needs no institutions or study; one can also groom itself by through observation. People and society is also a huge institution to learn.
Self-grooming is not limited in its meanings; studies and learning are not all. By grooming ourselves we portray our personality, skills, attitude, potential etc. Change of dressing is also a part of it; we should match to our atmosphere. A serious job requires serious and formal dressing and behaviors also matter in presenting yourselves. A little touch up changes the entire personality. We should also move towards latest trends and styles. This little changes keep your mind fresh ans active.
Although, there are an example of rigid people who think they are good in all way. They rarely want to change their lives and bind themselves to their so called principles. If we see some kind of success in such person, that is absolutely luck and nothing else. Most of them are not favorite one to any. Man is a social animal and mostly socializing at social media these days. Now, the fact is that head counts at friend list and likes matter a lot. Only adaptable people achieve the friendship of many. So, we need to change and groom ourselves according to the time and atmosphere.
Always try to do good for others and do not think for rewards or appreciations, a true happiness is a reward, a true friendship is a reward and a good change is a reward. Groom yourself and feel happiness in your life.

 

Best regards.

WATER SCARCITY

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We have almost 2/3 of our planet covered with water but still, we are facing water scarcity. Well, it is a shortage of fresh drinking water that is required to fulfill our nutrient values and health. According to various surveys around 1.2 billion people are facing this situation. At a rough count, it is almost 1/5 of the total world population.
People living in urban and remote areas, both are facing the problem in different ways but in remote areas it is worse. Mostly in remote areas, there is no water filtration system available to fulfill their needs. This severe condition constrains them to use polluted and unhygienic water from ponds, canals and rivers. Ponds appear with rainwater, it is a bowl shape or pool type area that collects the water in rain season. Both animals and humans drink and use the water from same place leading them to different diseases. An old way of water source is to dig a well for fresh water but it is not much common these days due to the fact that availability of fresh water is very deep.
In urban areas, it is in different way. Population is growing and officials are helpless to fulfill their basic needs. People living in main cities are facing the crisis and those who are well off, purchase fresh water at higher rates. Poor ones are in bad condition they have to wait in lines for their turn to get a bucket of fresh water. Sometimes they quarrel, pull, injure and say harsh words to each other. It is due to the frustration building within them, they have no way to release it out.
It is not a situation that came at once, our masterminds were quite aware of it for long. Many of us heard the sentence that “third world war will be fought at water resources”. These think tanks are geniuses and they started to prepare weapon for wars and ignored the real problem. Although research work is on its way to find new ways to convert sea water into fresh water but it is still at limited level. Our heavy budgets are still focusing on military power and new missile and arms.
Well, it is a matter of existence of mankind and our future obviously. How can we ignore it? We are trying to reach different planets and not using the available resources. It is an age of science and technology so why not to emphasis on main issue. I am sure there is no hurdle in it except the power game. We have many raw minds that are actually capable to overcome the problem. What we need is to start this job at grass root level. Countries start big projects for the betterment of their people like huge dams etc but according to the scenario, it is required to spread it at low level with controls over it.

 

People are thirsty in most part of the world and we should take initiatives to help them. Big minds should come forward and facilitate them. It is all around the world; either it is Africa or Asia. Organizations like WHO are not enough, they are doing their best but numbers of victims are increasing day by day. Some more efforts are the requirement of time. I request to cut the budget for huge and destructible arms and invest it at the betterment of people.
Best regards.