WHERE SHOULD WE GO;..

Dear all,

Chaos

We have no safe place on this planet. Chaos is all over; crimes, terrorist attacks, international rifts, wars and gun attacks are almost everywhere. No country is left to be declared as a safe place for a peaceful person.Terrorism

Most of us are not in favor of such activities but, unlike the ideal scenario, generally, no common person is asked before starting all this for they won’t allow. Just some ideas emerge from a radical mind which then starts. At massive level, compaigns are generally being relayed to make the minds of common people. While fundamentalists are also there to aggravate and agitate the people to do such crimes. These negative people are Continue reading “WHERE SHOULD WE GO;..”

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GARDENING – A HOBBY NEAR TO MY HEART

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Dear all,

Sowing a seed is like a new beginning. I like gardening as it is one of my most loved interests. My mom and my school companion “A” were extremely charmed with it. My mom was too much in household duties that she couldn’t spare much time to it yet at the same time she had planted some conventional plants like roses, jasmine, lemon, guava and grapes in our two yards. In my young age, I had seen individuals leaving half of their houses without construction to avail free space. That was the time when generally it was like to sleep in open like yards and rooftop. This open space or a veranda was a gift for such hobbies.

My old friend “A” was so much in to gather books, plants and old postal stamps. His family was related to printing related business and he used to choose distinctive books to interpret in the local language. We invested a considerable time and energy searching for his interests at my bike, bike, and bicycle. His second concern Continue reading “GARDENING – A HOBBY NEAR TO MY HEART”

EMOTIONAL FRUSTRATION

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Frustration was once known as anxiety and found in disturbed people only. Those who suffered from it were treated sympathetically by normal people. These days it becomes a routine in the life of many around the world.  Though people living in developed countries face less of it still it is there with different shapes. There is a global reason for uncertainty and disturbance between countries. Global warming, race of nuclear power and Socio-economical conditions are also one of the reasons.
These big words were once meant to think tanks and superior head of countries but now media shares each and every news of the world to the public. The positive aspect of this is “awareness” i.e. requirement of the time. But the negative impact is, sometimes a little incident affects a lot of a common person.  For example, if there is a planning of coup to some country and there is the severe rift between them. In this situation, a soft-hearted people obviously take it very seriously. The reason behind it that we have seen so many wars and their destructions and a normal person is not in favor of anymore. This is all power and number game and nothing else. Such disturbing news raises the frustration and anxiety all over.
Natural disasters, oppression towards humanity and discriminations are also a part of our daily news. There is a rift of unfair distribution of boundaries, people are having financial crisis and cruelty is at the peak. Innocent people are being murdered in café, educational institutions, worship and at other public places. Selfish people are not limited to one place they spread their feet all over the world. No country is safe. Developed countries have power and they deal with all but people of developing countries are facing terrorism, target killing, uncertainty and financial crisis in their vicinity. This is also supporting frustration.
Population, pollution and poor economic situation are also affecting people in many developing countries. People are moving to urban areas for better financial chances. This situation is very alarming in the cities of such third world countries. It affects a lot where people are more and state resources are not enough to manage them all. In such circumstances, first of all, traffic is becoming a mess. We are witnessing a daily traffic jam even in side roads. Long queues are and noise pollution is a routine that increasing stress in people.  Earning opportunities are also less as compare to the population.  This environment is affecting in a way where crimes are increasing and creating more emotional frustration in the young generation.
In developed countries, life is busy and everyone has time handling problems in daily routine. People try to resolve their problems by putting their responsibilities to various service vendors. Latest technologies lead us away from our loved ones; mobile and internet (social media) is a necessity but people waste a lot of time apart from their job.  We have the day to night entertainments that weakens the binding between families. This environment allows selfish people to attract and mislead the new generation by leading them towards bad practices.
At the family level, people are away from each other; they love to meet the persons those are only favorable to them.  Sometimes we ignore our loved ones in the race of success and achievements. This ignorance is also making our young generation frustrated, illusionist and daydreamers. It is not a healthy thing for a growing kid. We should pay attention to our children in a way to develop their personality. Improving living style is not limited to good food, standard schools, brands and luxury vacations. Personality is something that makes a person good or bad in a society. No matter in what situation we are living we can educate our children to be a good citizen.

 

In my view, a change at the family level is more effective to build a sensible society. Organize your every day in a suitable routine; wake up early, spare a little for exercise, do yoga or meditation. Keep an eye on your diet plans, think positive and do not interfere in others lives. A little prayer according to your belief is also a wonderful idea for the purity of soul and mind. Of course, we all are not having equal opportunities in our lives but one thing is free of cost, i.e. positivity. This will keep you away from worries and frustration. We should not see others change but take a start at yourself, be a role model and do care about kids as they are the future of human beings.
Best regards.

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BLUE WHALE – A MANIPULATIVE GAME

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Technology is everywhere and we are blessed to be the part of this modern age. This is not the end and there are vast opportunities ahead. Machines and types of equipment make our life easy. We can approach anybody around the world within seconds. Powerful machines are ready to solve our all problems. 3 D printers are helping to build from small instruments to sky rises. The Internet is there to spread information, knowledge, and entertainment. Smartphones replace many types of equipment. Watches, calculator, calendar and physical trainer are required for status show off only.
In the age of growing technologies and if I not exaggerate, everything seems possible in this world. A few years back, children were bound to go outside to play soccer, cricket, baseball, badminton and tennis in large playgrounds and streets. Large boards and tables were also required for Pool ball, Luddo, Carom and table tennis. Then time changed, and games are available in smartphones and in access of all kind of people. Old people can now also participate and enjoy any game on their smartphone. If you are not familiar with rules of any games even then you can learn it on the internet. Cards are also available with their magnetism.
Time is changed and so are the games. Now there is a lot of addition as compared to traditional games. Entertainment is there according to the mood; amusing, brainy, adventure, suspense, and funny apps are available at digital play stores. But in recent times we observe a change that many manipulative games are also available on the internet. These are promoting inhuman culture in growing minds. Fresh ones are their target to capture in this trance.
Blue whale game is one of the recent times problems that is in my view is gaining popularity. It is reported that many innocents have been targeted by it and lost their lives. According to the reports it is developed by a psycho who is being sentenced for a small period. This game has 50 levels and it challenges to dare an uneven act and final level challenge is a suicide attempt. People are worried about their children. Kids in teenage want their privacy and avoid family members.
I think the situation is not beyond controls. Family bonding is the only solution to this problem. Parents and siblings are the best guides to avoid such fake entertainment. Families should spare an hour in the night for a meeting where all members should discuss their daily routines with each other. People should not avoid sharing with the younger ones; try to elaborate the situation according to their knowledge. This sharing will bring them close to elders and they will surely discuss their routines with them. As an elder, people must watch the routines of their children. Any unusual routine will be an alarm and that should be taken care of. Children are future of mankind and most precious ones. We should build a confident and friendly atmosphere in our homes where everyone feels comfortable to share their all activities.
Games should be for entertainment, knowledge, and fun; do not allow them to kill anyone. Such game developers are mentally sick and spreading their sick ideas to others. We should have the confidence to defend against such circumstances. Children and teenagers should also show a gesture of intelligence; one frustrated and psycho cannot change your minds. No need to be desperate in any situation; think positive and quit
such manipulative games at an early stage. Humans should not handle with remotes in other hands. There is no psychiatric issue in it; we allow them to capture our thoughts and we have the power to refuse them. Sometimes people also relate themselves to others problems and visualize themselves at someone else place. Visualisation is good to bring new ideas in life but an excess of everything is bad. Many times reality is different from imaginations. If we are positive towards life, focused and mentally strong, no one can delude us.
Be positive and strong and defeat such selfish developers in any color they are; blue or white, whale or shark. Defeat them and grab the all gold stars from your life.
Good luck and best regards.

 

DISCRIMINATION

Dear all,
We should not be prejudice in humanity; whatever the situation we should come forward and help the people who are suffering any critical time. Either they are in some natural disasters or being trapped in oppression or victim of cruelty, we should help them keeping aside our liking and disliking. Help and humanity should not discriminate religion, race, language, geographic division or complexion. We are all same and humans. Our traditions, way of living or accent may be different but one thing is same and that is we are humans. We should feel the pain of others.
Minorities are main victims of inhuman practices; one vibrant example is Muslims of Myanmar (Burma). They have been slaughtered, being pulled out of the country and forced to become refugees in other countries. The good news in regard is that the issue grabbed the attention of international media after so many brutal incidents. Now it’s been expected that they be will be provided the place they deserve.  Their only crime is that they are minorities in their country.
If we are going to find the origins of people, it could be difficult to survive as in previous times different people migrated at different places. They have various reasons to leave their places and at that time there was no hurdle of visas. Where ever a skilled one is appreciated they migrated with all their families and started to live in the new atmosphere. Despite centuries of migration, natives never accepted them and behave them as an outsider. Time by time, natives tried to pull them out of their countries that are not fair.
I am not favoring a community or religion; it is the serious matter for minorities. This problem is not limited to minorities but immigrants are also suffering in many societies even in modern times. Immigrants are also being treated as aliens in society. No doubt they are different in culture but they must also be given time to mold themselves according to the changing environment. Some people may be rigid to accept changes. They need to be educated and trained in a new atmosphere. Illegal immigrants are not my subject they should not be accepted as it has become a threat to nations.
There are only a few countries that are excellent to accept new talent and new cultures. They have so adaptable that everyone is trying to become a part of that culture. People love to serve in these countries at any cost. There are also problems and issues but they are ready to resolve them with good command and tolerance. Nations must be open-hearted to accept others in their societies.
We should change our minds in this regard. Minorities must be allowed to live according to their trends. We should also respect their believing. They must not be forced to convert or migrate again. Let them feel as it is their homeland and they are not different. Our new world order should be humanity and not cruelty.
Best regards.

NATURAL DISASTERS

Dear all,
Weather is changing globally due to global warming. We should be ready for natural disasters like earthquakes, tornados, sea storms, ice storms, floods etc. Many countries are facing this situation in worse ever form. Some of them are developed countries, but they know that it is better to wait for it patiently and let it pass. They are already equipped to deal such disasters but sometimes all preparation seems not enough. Actually, these are unstoppable and we are helpless against them. We are now able to predict some of them but could not judge the consequences. It is just on estimations and forecasts.
Being a civilized person, we can do in such situation is just to be vigilant and get appropriate training to face these natural disasters. I admire the role of telecommunication and internet in this regards that they are flooding the information for precautions and security measures to meet this situation. We should carefully listen and understand the steps for security and also train our children. Awareness is the key to handle such circumstances. It also relief rescue teams in crucial times.
I followed all the CNN transmission regarding “Irma” that was remarkable. All people were alert and abiding by the rules. But I disappointed to see a few people wandering and enjoying the beach with their kids and pets. It was high alert at that time but “who cares”. They were capturing the view in their eyes and camera just to upload an image or video on social sites. Police had arrested many for the violation but we should also keep in mind that police and other rescue teams were deputed to help the victims. It is a waste of time and resources to engage them in such activities. Also, it was not a picnic time and hurricanes and tornados do not spare anybody.
If someone is willing to help other and also want to come out at this time; a proper training should be the foremost priority for them. This training should be according to you geographical situations. In normal days, enlist yourself in rescue platforms. They will definitely call you to join them in such noble efforts. Help others and enjoy for being human. At least, we can do something for ourselves, family and neighbors.

 

Being human, we always stand after being hurt or damaged. It is a human spirit that helps to fight against natural disasters. We are all in one string of humanity; people from the world are always standing with victims of all natural disasters. Whenever an earthquake hit in the developed country, all countries on the globe and their people came ahead and contributed for reconstruction. Help is not limited to finance, we can show the whole world a gesture of being together in all calamity. We can share their grievances. This is the least we can do for others. Long live humanity.
Best regards.

SHOWING OFF

Dear all,
Right from our childhood, we love to show and share our personal belonging to our elders, friends, and teachers. This gesture of sharing is natural and mostly a growing kid wants to impress others with one’s property. This habit grows up with all of us and we often control it in order to make our privacy. But many could not control this thing and situation aggravates in many cases.
Often, we find many examples in our society that people want to show their social status to others. For this they impress others with their branded dress, accessories and ride; it describes their background and seems accurate when moving in the same circle. But they are loud if moving in mediocre. Many of them obviously afford all this but there are also such examples who disguise themselves for any benefit or to deceive others.
Such differences and mismatches are often called the show off culture. Some people feel an inner satisfaction where they can tread over others. They try to generate inferiority complex in them and feel proud. They promote personal belongings as they are reachable to all classes and there is nothing abnormal. People influenced by this entire situation and it does not end here. It starts an endless race where mediocre or lower medium standard people also try to purchase such trendy and expensive things. Few of them do not care for right or wrong and want to achieve it all by hooks or crooks.
Another positive example is where people want to show their expertise to others so that they can be appreciated for their gifted talent. It is a natural way of expression and all noble societies love to buck up such skilled people. It also opens the new ways to promote such talent. Sometimes these brilliant minds grab the opportunity to monetize their skills.
These days, social media is full of such examples where one tried and being appreciated afterward. Now, there is also a category of show-offs, who know nothing but try to copy others and tag it at as their original work. Either it is a content, life hack or DIY, all being copied many times and all of them are not giving credit to actual mastermind. Copying anybody is not bad but for courtesy sake, we should tag the credit to originated person. This attitude will be much appreciated and increase your credit and viewers in a serious community, I bet.
I know these habits are hard to catch but one should try not to opt it. “Nip the evil in bud” we are our judge, our inner always pinches us on such nasty things but we often ignore it. Try to listen yourself and get rid of it in early age. If you delay, it will strengthen you. Being a show-off is apparently seems not much dangerous but it impacts a lot. Silently but aggressively it changes the structure of society and keeps the morality aside.
I have all this, if you have any suggestion, let me have the feedback. Your every word means a lot.
Best regards.